Second Wives Club

Dr. Millian is co-author of the relationship book "THE SECOND WIVES CLUB: Secrets for Becoming Lovers for Life," based upon her experience with "second-time-around" couples (straight or gay). The book was endorsed by Dr. John Gray, author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" and Dr. Gerald G. Jampolsky, M.D., author of "Love Is Letting Go of Fear" and "Forgiveness."

About Dr. Millian


N.J. Board of Psychological Examiners License #1998 to Practice Psychology 1984
Post Doctoral, New York Institute for Psychotherapy, New York, NY 1992
Ph.D. Rutgers University, New Brunswick, NJ 1982
M.A. The New School University, New York, NY 1979
B.A. Douglass College, New Brunswick, NJ 1976


American Psychological Association
New Jersey Psychological Association
American Mental Health Counselors Association

Other Credits

I have authored numerous magazine and newspaper articles and “THE SECOND WIVES CLUB” relationship book.

I have been featured on over thirty radio talk-shows and twelve television shows including: "The Today Show," CBS-TV News, ABC Eyewitness News, and NEWS12.

I have published a continuing column in “The Danbury News Times”, Danbury, CT entitled “Ask a Psychotherapist”.

As an internationally known psychologist, I have appeared on many television shows including "The Today Show," as well as national and local radio programs. I am skilled in helping individuals with many different problems that can be addressed in therapy, such as stress management, anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, low self-esteem, anger management, and gender identity issues to name a few.

I offer a relaxed, empathic, gentle and comfortable environment, qualities that are paramount in achieving effective therapy changes. I am nonjudgmental, and open to discussing a broad range of issues as a therapist. Your individual goals will be at the core of each counseling session.

- Dr. Lenore Millian